One key to good sex is masturbation. You need to know what makes you feel good. Also if you keep things “alive” down there, you are more responsive when you’re with someone else.
I highly recommend a vibrator. It’s an easy way to go from 0-100 fast, it doesn’t get tired, doesn’t require anything of you and never complains. If you’re shy and don’t want to go to a sex shop, order one on-line (Adam and Eve or Toys in Babeland are great on-line sources) – and don’t worry it comes in a plain brown box with nothing to give the postman any ideas what’s in the box…it could be shoes for all they know!
Many times you can get a free dvd with your purchase, thus starting your own little porn collection to help you get ideas about things you might like to try or help you create exciting fantasies for private time. At the very least there is something sexy about people having sex and enjoying it… Another benefit of getting yourself a toy and maybe a dvd or two is it shows a certain level of confidence in your sexuality – both to yourself and a future partner. You take your sexual satisfaction seriously (As you should). It’s not a bad idea to try a few different vibrators and figure out what works best for you because everyone is different. The Rabbit almost everyone loves to some degree or another but my all-time favorite is the standard plug in the wall powerful, soft headed wand.